We love: Pillow Post from the Secret Linen Store and Plooms


This is a lovely thing from one of our favourite bedlinen companies, The Secret Linen Store, and Plooms, a fountain pen company started by Sally Page. It has made me wish my children were young again…

Harriet and Molly of TSLS met Sally when they were all nominated for the Business Is Great’s campaign by Julie Deane of the Cambridge Satchel Company, as ‘female entrepreneurs to watch’ in 2015. They all have families and got talking about the the stresses of being entrepreneurial and keeping as hands on with their kids as possible.

Sally mentioned that she used something she called ‘Pillow Post’ with her daughters, leaving notes (hand written with a nice pen, obvs…) on her pillow to find when they went to bed. Her daughters would also write her back and leave notes on Sally’s pillow.

As well as the ‘proud of you’ and ‘love you’ notes, Sally said there were occasions when both she and her daughters found it hard to say things and writing it down became an easier way to start a discussion. Everything in the Pillow Post was kept secret between themselves too, so they didn’t have to talk about it unless someone wanted too.

Interestingly, since their conversation the three women have commissioned a survey of teenage girls aged between 13-19 years old, and found that 80% of the girls say that they find it difficult to say certain things face to face to their mums and 62% say they would find it easier to write it in a letter. I think boys are the same. Teenagers often find it hard to talk about stuff face to face, writing it down may well help. Of course you could do pillow texts, but I don’t think it sounds as intimate as finding a note on your pillow.

I think this is a lovely (non digital!) idea, I wish I’d done it with my boys when they were small. Of course you support your kids by talking constantly with them when they are young, but sometimes, if you’re busy and feel you’ve skimped on support, or you’re out on a school night (or two) or not around to read a bedtime story, a wee note on the pillow sounds a really sweet idea. And of course it’s a way of saying sorry too.

I am in big trouble with eldestson for calling him a hipster (see Friday’s post), he’s hardly speaking to me. If he still lived at home I could l start talking to him again through Pillow Post.


The nice womenfolk at The Secret Linen Store are offering a Mother’s Day treat for all our readers, by allowing 10% off their gorgeous bedlinen by using this code, WOMENSROOM. The offer is NOT available on clearance lines and ends 22.03/2015. read more about Plooms here




  • Hilary says:

    awww – poor eldestson! – when he gets to my age he’ll be THRILLED if anyone calls him a hipster..

  • Sally Page says:

    Thank you for such a lovely post (excuse the pun!) It is an idea that helped me and my daughters a lot and I hope it helps other mums. A letter is more considered, so my girls found they could be really honest, and also I was less likely to wade in with the first thing that came to me! Sally

  • Oh this is making me nostalgic for when my children were little, too! I used to write ‘fairy’ notes to them. Last time I visited my mum, I found my first ever letter – it was to my mum! It said, “Dear Mummy, please can we have a picnic after school today?”. Spelling all correct, too. x

  • Amanda says:

    Love it BBB, Fairy post! Glad to help promote your lovely pens Sally, fountain pens are fabulous, I am never without my retractable Pilot. And hand written notes are keepers, just isn’t the same in a text….or email A

  • DK says:

    I am a dedicated letter writer and find it an easy way to say things from the heart, that I would struggle to say en face. When my children have gone through difficult phases I have dropped them a line offering support and encouragement. In this day & age of emails I have written a letter in “word” and sent it as an attachment via email. Its like getting a letter, but quicker. I wrote to them while they were at university. Their friends were jealous that they got letters from their mum! Daughter is currently living in london and I write (as well as text/phone/email) because it is special and different. At the weekend I sent her a postcard! Recently daughter sent me a card (we are only 1 hr away, not the other side of the world) it simply said “miss you” It made my day!

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